Waiting Outside the Lines_GLS
Posted on Sunday, November 25, 2012
@ 9:19 AM
That day is my ‘dooms day’
ever! Really! I crashed a truck and I lost both of my legs :(. My legs are the
most important things ever! Without my legs I can’t walk and move freely.
Besides that, I’m an athlete in my school, without my legs I wouldn’t follow
any competition and won any badminton competition. Oh yes, my name is Annelie
Bradford. I am in grade 10th and school at Cheyenne.
“Mom, I want to go to park!”
“OK, don’t go too far!” I just nod my head, I feel so bore, and I hope I can
entertain myself after all of what I have gotten.
*In Park*
“Mom, why she use wheel
chair?” “She is different with us. She has no legs, so she can’t walk by her
own self” “Oh… Poor her” What? I’m different? I have no legs? Why? I go to the
side of park which there’s no people there to get the answer, but I can’t, I
just crying. Suddenly, there’s a boy push my wheelchair, I know that he doesn’t
know it too. “Ahh… Sorry” “Nope” answered me “What are you doing here? Why do
you cry?” “I… I am … I DON’T KNOW WHAT I DO :’(.” “Why?” I don’t answer him and
start to cry. “Hey, don’t cry” All of people see us and I think they start to
think that he made me cry. “Why are you crying? Tell me the truth? Maybe I can
help you” “I just lost the most important things ever :’(.” I am such a stupid
girl, I tell him the truth, even though we just know each other 10 minutes ago.
“And now my life is broken into pieces” I said to end the story. “No your life
is still continuing!” “What? How come? I am not a clever one or a rich one, I
just have talent in sport, sport is my life, but now, I lost my legs…”
“Tomorrow, meet me at *give an address*” It’s a sports ground place. “But …” “I
CHALLENGE YOU!”
*Tomorrow*
“The End” that words means
the end of ‘The Story of Us’ song and my math homework. Yes, I love to hear
music; even I can’t play it… “Feeling bored” Suddenly I remember the challenge
yesterday. I thought I won’t get there. “Better, I go there, maybe if I don’t
go there, he’ll think that I lied” I prepare myself and go there with my wheel
chair.
*In the Sports Ground*
“Hey, you!!” “Me?” Just for
make sure that one guy call me. “Yes!” “Who’re you?” “I’m the one who challenge
you yesterday, remember?” Oh … He is the one who challenged me yesterday “Let’s
start the game … emm” “Anne :)” “Oh okay, Anne ;)”
The game ended, and the score
is ……. Of course, I win ;)
“Huh, I admit you are
talented :D” “No, no, you are talented too” I tell it to not make me looks
higher than him. “By the way, who are you?” “Me? I am a dreamer” “I mean your
name -_-.” “Oh… Greyson, nice to meet you :)” “Nice to meet you too Grey :D”
“How long you have been staying in here?” I asked him “It’s about 2 days ago”
Wah … A new neighbor. “Where’s your school?” “Cheyenne … You?” “We are same ;)”
“And the best part is my home is beside your home” He continued. “How can you
know my house?” “I see you go out this morning, haha” “But I don’t see you in
school today?” “Yep, today I don’t go to school. :D” “Hah -,- a good stalker”
“Hey! I’m not stalker :P” “I think you are :P” said me. We laugh until there’re
some butterflies fly in our stomach, I never laugh like this after that crush.
*Tomorrow in school*
“Anne, I will back to French
in 6 days” “What? :(, why?” “My father’s has done in here” “Why you don’t tell
me? :(.” “I know it by this morning” “Hey! Anne” Greyson calls me and broke our
conversation “Hey, Greyson. Let me introduce my friend. She is Lauren :).
Lauren, he is Greyson” “Hei! Nice to know you!” Just in some minutes they look
like a close friends, actually Greyson is easy-going, haha.
*In House*
Now, I have a
discussion-friend. Greyson and I have some of same things we like, just like
sports and music. Today he goes to my home to do our homework. “Where do you
come from?” “L.A :)” “Oh, cool. How I wish I would here :D” “No, I am just
joking, I am from Atlanta :P,” “Huh, I thought it was true -_-.” “Haha, sorry”.
*In School*
In my school, of course I
have a crush, his name is Louis, he used to come to me and talk with me, but
now, he just leaves me and goes for another girl. I feel like this month is the
best month ever, I lost my legs, my best friend left me, my crush goes for
another girl, what again? I don’t wanna say that my life just a shit, because,
if I say like that, maybe I’ll get some bad things again. “Hey! What’s up? Why
are you crying again?” “None of your business” “I am just asking you :D”
“Sorry, I am too sensitive right now” “OK, I know the feeling when we are
broken heart :D” “What are you talking about?” “You are broken heart :P” “You
are a really PROFESIONAL STALKER -_-.
*In House*
Today, I didn’t meet Lauren,
I think she is too busy for prepare her travel to French. “Web-cam maybe is the
answer!” I go for twit cam, and mention Lauren, but I think she is not online.
I check on her profile. “I am actually don’t need friend who doesn’t have even
a leg” I just shocked when I was looking it. Suddenly Greyson mention me “Hey
thereee! :P have cam?” “Yes I have,” “Let’s twit cam” “You need to pay if you
wanna twit cam with me :P” “Huh-,- How much?”
“100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 dollars :P”
“How expensive -__-,” “Haha, I am joking bro! Let’s twit cam :)”
We are on our web cam until 1
a.m. In the middle of web cam, he sang a song “Special song for you” He moved
his camera to his piano; he played it and sang it well, even without any
partition. “What do you think?” “it’s cool :D, but I never hear that song
before, what’s the title and who’s make that incredible song?” “Waiting Outside
The Lines – Greyson Chance :D, I’m serious, this song is made by me” “Wah, it’s
really uncool -.-.” “Huuhh, you’ve told me that song is incredible :P” “No, I
don’t” “Haha, up to you, for sure, I have heard that you said like that :P,
bye, I gotta go to sleep”
Today is holiday! I plan to spend today in Internet.
Suddenly, I have an idea “Why not upload the video ! :D” ‘The Video’ mean
Greyson’s video yesterday :P, I recorded it and he dunno know. ‘Upload
Successfully’. Then, I mention the link to him. He is pretty shock I think :P
“Hey, what are you doing?-___-.” “I just upload it :) Because I think it was
pretty cool and all of you-tube watchers need to see it”
*Tomorrow*
“Anneee -___-, I get a call
from a stranger who told me that they are Ellen DeGeneres crew -___-. That’s
all because of you” “But I don’t put your number there :/” “My e-mail?-___-.”
“hehe, yes… but why you don’t try to talk with her? Who know that she is the
real Ellen ;)” “Don’t dream too big” “Who can guess? You used to remember me
that life is full of striving, even in your song ;) so why don’t you try? :)”
“Eh, yes you are true :)”
***********
Today is not holiday again, I feel really lazy to wake up, but I need :/. After
take a bath I see Greyson and family are get into car from balcony. Where’re
they going? “Anne, let’s have breakfast” “Okay, mom” Then I get onto my
wheelchair and go downstairs slowly. After I have my breakfast, I text him
“Hey, where are you going?” “I will go to Ellen DeGeneres show” “Eh… How come?
:P” “The one who told me that they are Ellen DeGeneres crew ask me to go
there.” “And then how is your feeling ;)?” “Just as usual, I don’t want to put
too much dream” “Ah… You are not like usual bro -__-.” “Oh yeah, I will be in
L.A. in 2 days, today and tomorrow, do you want me to buy you something?” “No,
I just want you to know that dream big is not a mistake :) Btw, I need to go to
school. Bye”
In
my school, I even can’t concentrate with what teacher told. I always think
about “Are they really Ellen DeGeneres crew?” “What will Greyson do there?” I
can’t wait to go home and ask him. Suddenly Lauren comes to me and the other
also … They come with an angry face, “HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANNE :D” The emotion
change fast, “Anne, I lie on you, I just wanna surprise you, sorry :)” Lauren
hugs me. “We’ll always be best friend yep?” Lauren asks, I nod my head :). They
remember my birthday, I even forget it :P.
*In
Home*
“OMG
… 15 unread message(s)”
‘THANKKSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!
ANNNEEEEEEEEEE!’
‘AAAAAAAAAAANNNNNEEEEEEEEEE!!
I MEEETTTT ELLEN!!!!!!!’
And
another message(s) is talk about it. “WHAT?WHAT HAPPENED?” I text him. “ELLEN
GAVE ME A CONTRACT! AS A SINGER! AND THAT’S ALL BECAUSE OF YOU!:DDDDDDDD” “No,
it’s your talent, so it’s not my causes ;)” “Hehe, but it’s all start because
you uploaded my video ;D” “Btw, how about Lauren? Has she gone to French?” “No,
she just lied! She wanna surprised me in my Birthday ;)” “When was your
birthday?” “Today!” “Wah! Happy birthday :) Wish you all the best, I will give
you a gift from here, tomorrow ;)” “No, no need to give it :) Thanks btw. And I
hope you won’t forget me after be a singer :) I hope we still can play
badminton together like last time, and also thanks for the spirit :)” “You’re
welcome. And yes, we still :D”
Tomorrow,
Greyson meets me and give me a ‘fake
legs’. “You still can continue your dream :D, maybe this is not too
expensive, but I think this is very useful.” “Thanks a lot!! Yay, I still can
play badminton ;D” “Let’s go to the sports ground and play badminton :)” “With
these legs?” “Of course ;)”
*****************************************************************************************************************
That’s the end of the story :) Greyson’s carrier as singer goes hard, everyday
he gets so many fans, and also Anne’s carrier as an athlete, now she’s not only
an athlete in school, but also an athlete for her nation, American :).
MARI KITA STOP BULLYING :)
Posted on Saturday, November 17, 2012
@ 6:46 PM
Semakin modern,
semakin maju ke depan, kita, generasi penerus bangsa, malah semakin terpuruk.
Moral yang hampir tidak ada lagi, juga sikap ‘respect’ terhadap sesama. Salah
satunya, bullying, kasus yang dialami hampir semua anak, mungkin semuanya.
Entahlah, ini kesalahan globalisasi atau takdir yang sedang berbicara?
Apa
yang terbesit di pikiranmu ketika mendengar kata ‘bullying’? Kekerasan fisik?
Ya, tapi, kekerasan fisik bukanlah satu-satu nya yamg terjadi dalam kasus-kasus
bullying yang ‘membunuh’. Kata-kata yang menyakitkan juga termasuk salah satu
kasus bullying. Kita semua disini pasti pernah olok-olok teman kita dengan
kata-kata yang kurang pantas, baik secara langsung, ataupun tidak. Namun,
apakah kalian tahu rasanya menjadi dia? Mungkin kalian tahu, tapi, kalian tidak
pernah berpikir tentang perasaan dia.
Ada
beberapa alasan mengapa bullying terjadi di kalangan sekolah (sebenarnya, tidak
hanya di sekolah, di hampir semua lingkungan sosial). Yang pertama, karena korban
mungkin melakukan suatu kesalahan, yang sangat berpengaruh bagi lingkungannya.
Walaupun itu bukan kesalahan dia sepenuhnya. Everyone makes mistakes, tetapi kita hidup bukan untuk kesalahan,
kita hidup untuk memperbaiki kesalahan itu. Kamu boleh menyiapkan 100 kantung
muntah setelah membaca ini, tapi, ini kenyataan.
Yang
kedua, si tukang bully yang ‘gila’ akan kepopuleran. Tujuan mereka adalah untuk
mendapatkan kepopuleran. Dengan begitu, dia mungkin merasa kalau dia itu kuat
dan berkuasa atas yang semua murid, otomatis, dia merasa dia dikenal semua
orang dan juga diperhatikkan semua orang. Padahal, kenyataannya berbeda. Dia
malah tidak disukai.
“Hiburan
semata” adalah alasan yang terakhir yang saya dapatkan dari hasil survey saya.
Memang sih, kita perlu hiburan. Tapi, bukan berarti kita harus mengolok-ngolok
salah satu teman kita dan kemudian tertawa atas semua itu. Kalau hanya sekali
atau dua kali sih tidak apa, tetapi, kalau setiap hari? Jangan egois! Tertawa
itu untuk kesenangan semua orang, bukan cuma kamu saja.
Kamu
akan memanggil mereka ‘si lemah’ karena mereka tidak pernah menanggapi sikap mu
itu (bullying). Kamu pasti berpikir mereka takut akan kamu. Padahal, mereka
bukan takut, mereka itu bodoh. Tapi ternyata kamu salah. Mereka bahkan lebih
pintar dari kamu. Hukum Karma. Ya, aku yakin kamu pasti tahu. “Kamu akan
mendapatkan apa yang kamu pernah berikan”. Mereka mengerti mengenai hal itu,
makanya mereka diam dan tidak memperdulikan olok-olokkan kamu. Mereka patut
diacungi jempol, karena, bertahan di tengah kata-kata yang menyakitkan itu
bukanlah hal yang mudah.
Bullying
itu salah satu aksi pembunuhan karakter. Bagaimana tidak? Bayangkan, setiap
hari anak itu diolok-olok oleh lingkungan sekitarnya. Anak itu pun tidak tahan
lagi dan akhirnya memutuskan untuk ‘home-schooling’. Kalian tahu kan keadaan di
‘home-schooling’? Hanya ada dia dan guru privat nya. Dengan begitu, dia pasti
jarang sekali bersosialisasi dengan anak yang lain. Saat dia untuk keluar dari
‘kandangnya’, dia tidak terbiasa bersosialisasi. Ketika semuanya hancur, siapa
yang akan disalahkan?
Selain
pembunuhan karakter, bullying juga penyumbang angka kematian yang besar. Banyak
orang yang meninggal karena tidak tahan atas perlakuan lingkungan sekitarnya.
Banyak yang putus asa karena merasa dirinya begitu rendah di mata orang lain,
dia mengambil jalan pintas, ya, bunuh diri.
Saat
ini, banyak orang yang telah terbuka matanya untuk kasus-kasus bullying.
Bahkan, banyak selebribtis yang ikut berpartisipasi dalam memberantas kasus
bullying ini di kalangan sekolah. Mereka menyumbang karya mengenai kasus
bullying, misalnya, lagu ‘Mean’ oleh Taylor Swift, ‘Purple Sky’ oleh Greyson
Chance, dan masih banyak lagi.
Kita
juga bisa kok ikut berpartisipasi untuk menghentikan semua ini. Mungkin, kita
tidak bisa membantu secara langsung. Terkadang, kita yang membantu malah kita
yang di-bully. Kita dapat memulai dari diri kita sendiri untuk berhenti meledek
teman kita dengan kata-kata yang menyakitkan, kita sudah ikut berpartisipasi
terhadap ini.
Waiting Outside the Lines_GLS
Posted on Sunday, November 25, 2012
@ 9:19 AM
That day is my ‘dooms day’
ever! Really! I crashed a truck and I lost both of my legs :(. My legs are the
most important things ever! Without my legs I can’t walk and move freely.
Besides that, I’m an athlete in my school, without my legs I wouldn’t follow
any competition and won any badminton competition. Oh yes, my name is Annelie
Bradford. I am in grade 10th and school at Cheyenne.
“Mom, I want to go to park!”
“OK, don’t go too far!” I just nod my head, I feel so bore, and I hope I can
entertain myself after all of what I have gotten.
*In Park*
“Mom, why she use wheel
chair?” “She is different with us. She has no legs, so she can’t walk by her
own self” “Oh… Poor her” What? I’m different? I have no legs? Why? I go to the
side of park which there’s no people there to get the answer, but I can’t, I
just crying. Suddenly, there’s a boy push my wheelchair, I know that he doesn’t
know it too. “Ahh… Sorry” “Nope” answered me “What are you doing here? Why do
you cry?” “I… I am … I DON’T KNOW WHAT I DO :’(.” “Why?” I don’t answer him and
start to cry. “Hey, don’t cry” All of people see us and I think they start to
think that he made me cry. “Why are you crying? Tell me the truth? Maybe I can
help you” “I just lost the most important things ever :’(.” I am such a stupid
girl, I tell him the truth, even though we just know each other 10 minutes ago.
“And now my life is broken into pieces” I said to end the story. “No your life
is still continuing!” “What? How come? I am not a clever one or a rich one, I
just have talent in sport, sport is my life, but now, I lost my legs…”
“Tomorrow, meet me at *give an address*” It’s a sports ground place. “But …” “I
CHALLENGE YOU!”
*Tomorrow*
“The End” that words means
the end of ‘The Story of Us’ song and my math homework. Yes, I love to hear
music; even I can’t play it… “Feeling bored” Suddenly I remember the challenge
yesterday. I thought I won’t get there. “Better, I go there, maybe if I don’t
go there, he’ll think that I lied” I prepare myself and go there with my wheel
chair.
*In the Sports Ground*
“Hey, you!!” “Me?” Just for
make sure that one guy call me. “Yes!” “Who’re you?” “I’m the one who challenge
you yesterday, remember?” Oh … He is the one who challenged me yesterday “Let’s
start the game … emm” “Anne :)” “Oh okay, Anne ;)”
The game ended, and the score
is ……. Of course, I win ;)
“Huh, I admit you are
talented :D” “No, no, you are talented too” I tell it to not make me looks
higher than him. “By the way, who are you?” “Me? I am a dreamer” “I mean your
name -_-.” “Oh… Greyson, nice to meet you :)” “Nice to meet you too Grey :D”
“How long you have been staying in here?” I asked him “It’s about 2 days ago”
Wah … A new neighbor. “Where’s your school?” “Cheyenne … You?” “We are same ;)”
“And the best part is my home is beside your home” He continued. “How can you
know my house?” “I see you go out this morning, haha” “But I don’t see you in
school today?” “Yep, today I don’t go to school. :D” “Hah -,- a good stalker”
“Hey! I’m not stalker :P” “I think you are :P” said me. We laugh until there’re
some butterflies fly in our stomach, I never laugh like this after that crush.
*Tomorrow in school*
“Anne, I will back to French
in 6 days” “What? :(, why?” “My father’s has done in here” “Why you don’t tell
me? :(.” “I know it by this morning” “Hey! Anne” Greyson calls me and broke our
conversation “Hey, Greyson. Let me introduce my friend. She is Lauren :).
Lauren, he is Greyson” “Hei! Nice to know you!” Just in some minutes they look
like a close friends, actually Greyson is easy-going, haha.
*In House*
Now, I have a
discussion-friend. Greyson and I have some of same things we like, just like
sports and music. Today he goes to my home to do our homework. “Where do you
come from?” “L.A :)” “Oh, cool. How I wish I would here :D” “No, I am just
joking, I am from Atlanta :P,” “Huh, I thought it was true -_-.” “Haha, sorry”.
*In School*
In my school, of course I
have a crush, his name is Louis, he used to come to me and talk with me, but
now, he just leaves me and goes for another girl. I feel like this month is the
best month ever, I lost my legs, my best friend left me, my crush goes for
another girl, what again? I don’t wanna say that my life just a shit, because,
if I say like that, maybe I’ll get some bad things again. “Hey! What’s up? Why
are you crying again?” “None of your business” “I am just asking you :D”
“Sorry, I am too sensitive right now” “OK, I know the feeling when we are
broken heart :D” “What are you talking about?” “You are broken heart :P” “You
are a really PROFESIONAL STALKER -_-.
*In House*
Today, I didn’t meet Lauren,
I think she is too busy for prepare her travel to French. “Web-cam maybe is the
answer!” I go for twit cam, and mention Lauren, but I think she is not online.
I check on her profile. “I am actually don’t need friend who doesn’t have even
a leg” I just shocked when I was looking it. Suddenly Greyson mention me “Hey
thereee! :P have cam?” “Yes I have,” “Let’s twit cam” “You need to pay if you
wanna twit cam with me :P” “Huh-,- How much?”
“100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 dollars :P”
“How expensive -__-,” “Haha, I am joking bro! Let’s twit cam :)”
We are on our web cam until 1
a.m. In the middle of web cam, he sang a song “Special song for you” He moved
his camera to his piano; he played it and sang it well, even without any
partition. “What do you think?” “it’s cool :D, but I never hear that song
before, what’s the title and who’s make that incredible song?” “Waiting Outside
The Lines – Greyson Chance :D, I’m serious, this song is made by me” “Wah, it’s
really uncool -.-.” “Huuhh, you’ve told me that song is incredible :P” “No, I
don’t” “Haha, up to you, for sure, I have heard that you said like that :P,
bye, I gotta go to sleep”
Today is holiday! I plan to spend today in Internet.
Suddenly, I have an idea “Why not upload the video ! :D” ‘The Video’ mean
Greyson’s video yesterday :P, I recorded it and he dunno know. ‘Upload
Successfully’. Then, I mention the link to him. He is pretty shock I think :P
“Hey, what are you doing?-___-.” “I just upload it :) Because I think it was
pretty cool and all of you-tube watchers need to see it”
*Tomorrow*
“Anneee -___-, I get a call
from a stranger who told me that they are Ellen DeGeneres crew -___-. That’s
all because of you” “But I don’t put your number there :/” “My e-mail?-___-.”
“hehe, yes… but why you don’t try to talk with her? Who know that she is the
real Ellen ;)” “Don’t dream too big” “Who can guess? You used to remember me
that life is full of striving, even in your song ;) so why don’t you try? :)”
“Eh, yes you are true :)”
***********
Today is not holiday again, I feel really lazy to wake up, but I need :/. After
take a bath I see Greyson and family are get into car from balcony. Where’re
they going? “Anne, let’s have breakfast” “Okay, mom” Then I get onto my
wheelchair and go downstairs slowly. After I have my breakfast, I text him
“Hey, where are you going?” “I will go to Ellen DeGeneres show” “Eh… How come?
:P” “The one who told me that they are Ellen DeGeneres crew ask me to go
there.” “And then how is your feeling ;)?” “Just as usual, I don’t want to put
too much dream” “Ah… You are not like usual bro -__-.” “Oh yeah, I will be in
L.A. in 2 days, today and tomorrow, do you want me to buy you something?” “No,
I just want you to know that dream big is not a mistake :) Btw, I need to go to
school. Bye”
In
my school, I even can’t concentrate with what teacher told. I always think
about “Are they really Ellen DeGeneres crew?” “What will Greyson do there?” I
can’t wait to go home and ask him. Suddenly Lauren comes to me and the other
also … They come with an angry face, “HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANNE :D” The emotion
change fast, “Anne, I lie on you, I just wanna surprise you, sorry :)” Lauren
hugs me. “We’ll always be best friend yep?” Lauren asks, I nod my head :). They
remember my birthday, I even forget it :P.
*In
Home*
“OMG
… 15 unread message(s)”
‘THANKKSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!
ANNNEEEEEEEEEE!’
‘AAAAAAAAAAANNNNNEEEEEEEEEE!!
I MEEETTTT ELLEN!!!!!!!’
And
another message(s) is talk about it. “WHAT?WHAT HAPPENED?” I text him. “ELLEN
GAVE ME A CONTRACT! AS A SINGER! AND THAT’S ALL BECAUSE OF YOU!:DDDDDDDD” “No,
it’s your talent, so it’s not my causes ;)” “Hehe, but it’s all start because
you uploaded my video ;D” “Btw, how about Lauren? Has she gone to French?” “No,
she just lied! She wanna surprised me in my Birthday ;)” “When was your
birthday?” “Today!” “Wah! Happy birthday :) Wish you all the best, I will give
you a gift from here, tomorrow ;)” “No, no need to give it :) Thanks btw. And I
hope you won’t forget me after be a singer :) I hope we still can play
badminton together like last time, and also thanks for the spirit :)” “You’re
welcome. And yes, we still :D”
Tomorrow,
Greyson meets me and give me a ‘fake
legs’. “You still can continue your dream :D, maybe this is not too
expensive, but I think this is very useful.” “Thanks a lot!! Yay, I still can
play badminton ;D” “Let’s go to the sports ground and play badminton :)” “With
these legs?” “Of course ;)”
*****************************************************************************************************************
That’s the end of the story :) Greyson’s carrier as singer goes hard, everyday
he gets so many fans, and also Anne’s carrier as an athlete, now she’s not only
an athlete in school, but also an athlete for her nation, American :).
MARI KITA STOP BULLYING :)
Posted on Saturday, November 17, 2012
@ 6:46 PM
Semakin modern,
semakin maju ke depan, kita, generasi penerus bangsa, malah semakin terpuruk.
Moral yang hampir tidak ada lagi, juga sikap ‘respect’ terhadap sesama. Salah
satunya, bullying, kasus yang dialami hampir semua anak, mungkin semuanya.
Entahlah, ini kesalahan globalisasi atau takdir yang sedang berbicara?
Apa
yang terbesit di pikiranmu ketika mendengar kata ‘bullying’? Kekerasan fisik?
Ya, tapi, kekerasan fisik bukanlah satu-satu nya yamg terjadi dalam kasus-kasus
bullying yang ‘membunuh’. Kata-kata yang menyakitkan juga termasuk salah satu
kasus bullying. Kita semua disini pasti pernah olok-olok teman kita dengan
kata-kata yang kurang pantas, baik secara langsung, ataupun tidak. Namun,
apakah kalian tahu rasanya menjadi dia? Mungkin kalian tahu, tapi, kalian tidak
pernah berpikir tentang perasaan dia.
Ada
beberapa alasan mengapa bullying terjadi di kalangan sekolah (sebenarnya, tidak
hanya di sekolah, di hampir semua lingkungan sosial). Yang pertama, karena korban
mungkin melakukan suatu kesalahan, yang sangat berpengaruh bagi lingkungannya.
Walaupun itu bukan kesalahan dia sepenuhnya. Everyone makes mistakes, tetapi kita hidup bukan untuk kesalahan,
kita hidup untuk memperbaiki kesalahan itu. Kamu boleh menyiapkan 100 kantung
muntah setelah membaca ini, tapi, ini kenyataan.
Yang
kedua, si tukang bully yang ‘gila’ akan kepopuleran. Tujuan mereka adalah untuk
mendapatkan kepopuleran. Dengan begitu, dia mungkin merasa kalau dia itu kuat
dan berkuasa atas yang semua murid, otomatis, dia merasa dia dikenal semua
orang dan juga diperhatikkan semua orang. Padahal, kenyataannya berbeda. Dia
malah tidak disukai.
“Hiburan
semata” adalah alasan yang terakhir yang saya dapatkan dari hasil survey saya.
Memang sih, kita perlu hiburan. Tapi, bukan berarti kita harus mengolok-ngolok
salah satu teman kita dan kemudian tertawa atas semua itu. Kalau hanya sekali
atau dua kali sih tidak apa, tetapi, kalau setiap hari? Jangan egois! Tertawa
itu untuk kesenangan semua orang, bukan cuma kamu saja.
Kamu
akan memanggil mereka ‘si lemah’ karena mereka tidak pernah menanggapi sikap mu
itu (bullying). Kamu pasti berpikir mereka takut akan kamu. Padahal, mereka
bukan takut, mereka itu bodoh. Tapi ternyata kamu salah. Mereka bahkan lebih
pintar dari kamu. Hukum Karma. Ya, aku yakin kamu pasti tahu. “Kamu akan
mendapatkan apa yang kamu pernah berikan”. Mereka mengerti mengenai hal itu,
makanya mereka diam dan tidak memperdulikan olok-olokkan kamu. Mereka patut
diacungi jempol, karena, bertahan di tengah kata-kata yang menyakitkan itu
bukanlah hal yang mudah.
Bullying
itu salah satu aksi pembunuhan karakter. Bagaimana tidak? Bayangkan, setiap
hari anak itu diolok-olok oleh lingkungan sekitarnya. Anak itu pun tidak tahan
lagi dan akhirnya memutuskan untuk ‘home-schooling’. Kalian tahu kan keadaan di
‘home-schooling’? Hanya ada dia dan guru privat nya. Dengan begitu, dia pasti
jarang sekali bersosialisasi dengan anak yang lain. Saat dia untuk keluar dari
‘kandangnya’, dia tidak terbiasa bersosialisasi. Ketika semuanya hancur, siapa
yang akan disalahkan?
Selain
pembunuhan karakter, bullying juga penyumbang angka kematian yang besar. Banyak
orang yang meninggal karena tidak tahan atas perlakuan lingkungan sekitarnya.
Banyak yang putus asa karena merasa dirinya begitu rendah di mata orang lain,
dia mengambil jalan pintas, ya, bunuh diri.
Saat
ini, banyak orang yang telah terbuka matanya untuk kasus-kasus bullying.
Bahkan, banyak selebribtis yang ikut berpartisipasi dalam memberantas kasus
bullying ini di kalangan sekolah. Mereka menyumbang karya mengenai kasus
bullying, misalnya, lagu ‘Mean’ oleh Taylor Swift, ‘Purple Sky’ oleh Greyson
Chance, dan masih banyak lagi.
Kita
juga bisa kok ikut berpartisipasi untuk menghentikan semua ini. Mungkin, kita
tidak bisa membantu secara langsung. Terkadang, kita yang membantu malah kita
yang di-bully. Kita dapat memulai dari diri kita sendiri untuk berhenti meledek
teman kita dengan kata-kata yang menyakitkan, kita sudah ikut berpartisipasi
terhadap ini.
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